How
Hypnotherapy
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What is Hypnosis and How Can It Help You?
Hypnosis is a natural state that allows you to work directly with your subconscious mind—the part of you that stores your beliefs, emotional patterns, habits, and automatic responses.
If you've ever wondered,
"Why do I keep doing this even though I know better?"
And you feel like you have no control over certain feelings, behaviors, and thoughts.
The answer usually isn't a lack of willpower.
It's that your subconscious learned a pattern for survival somewhere along the way, and it's been repeating it ever since. And because your brain thinks this pattern is essential for survival, it doesn't want to let it go.
Hypnosis helps you gently update those patterns so your mind and body can begin responding in healthier ways.
What is Hypnosis?
Have you ever been driving to work, or home after a long day, and found yourself zoning out, lost in thought, and don't even remember parts of the drive? Maybe you don't remember driving over the bridge you normally drive over, or you even miss your turn because you're not paying attention.
You were actually in a state of hypnosis.
You can also go into hypnosis when you’re engrossed in a movie, fall in love, have a deep conversation, and just before drifting off to sleep at night.
Those are all natural hypnotic states.
Hypnosis isn't mind control or losing consciousness. It's a state of focused attention where your subconscious becomes more receptive to learning and change.
Ancient cultures have recognized and utilized hypnotic states for thousands of years. Shamans, ancient Egyptians, and Eastern meditation practices all used and continue to use these states for healing and spiritual purposes.
Today, we know these states are associated with slower brainwave patterns—particularly Alpha and Theta—which are linked to relaxation, creativity, learning, and subconscious processing.
It's a state you naturally enter every day.
But in hypnotherapy, we use it intentionally.
Why Do We Get Stuck?
From the time you're born until around 8 years old, your brain is in hypnosis. This is when you're extremely open to learning, making associations to different stimuli, and starting to make sense of the world and decide what you need to do to get your needs met.
Every experience teaches you something.
If you were comforted when you cried, you may have learned that it's safe to ask for help.
If you were criticized, rejected, or expected to be perfect, you may have learned that love has to be earned.
If birthdays always meant cake and celebration, your brain may have linked sweets with comfort and happiness.
None of these patterns were created because something was wrong with you.
Your brain was simply doing its job—learning how to keep you safe and navigate the world.
The challenge is that many of those patterns continue running long after they've stopped serving you.
That's why you can know, logically, that you're safe... and still feel anxious.
You can know your partner loves you... and still fear rejection.
You can desperately want to stop people pleasing... and still automatically say yes.
Your conscious mind wants one thing.
Your subconscious has learned something different.
That's where our work begins.
How Change Happens
Most of us aren't stuck because we don't know what to do.
We're stuck because our subconscious has learned patterns that once helped us survive, protect ourselves, or make sense of the world.
These patterns can show up as anxiety, people-pleasing, emotional eating, addiction, procrastination, perfectionism, relationship struggles, self-doubt, or reacting in ways you wish you wouldn't.
The good news is that these patterns aren't who you are—they're what you've learned. And anything your brain has learned can be updated.
Change happens by getting to the root of the pattern.
Sometimes that's an emotion that was never fully processed.
Sometimes it's a belief you formed during childhood or through difficult life experiences.
Sometimes it's a nervous system that learned to stay on high alert.
Sometimes it's an unconscious association between a trigger and an automatic reaction.
Rather than trying to manage symptoms or rely on willpower, we work with your subconscious to discover what's keeping the pattern in place and create new experiences that allow your brain and body to respond differently.
Throughout our work together, we'll interrupt old patterns, create healthier responses, and practice those new responses so they become your brain's new default. This is how new neural pathways are built and lasting change begins to happen.
Hypnosis is one of the tools we use because it allows us to work directly with the subconscious mind—the part of you that created these patterns in the first place.
But hypnosis isn't what creates change on its own.
Your willingness to notice your patterns, practice new responses, and use the tools between sessions is what allows those new pathways to become stronger and automatic over time.
My role is to guide you, support you, and help make that process easier. Your role is to practice what you learn in real life.
You don't have to do it perfectly.
You just have to keep interrupting the old pattern and giving your brain opportunities to learn a new one.
What to Expect in a Session
Sessions are held over Zoom, and many people find they can relax even more deeply from the comfort of their own home. All you'll need is a quiet space where you won't be interrupted and a comfortable place to sit or lie down.
Every session is different because every person is different.
Rather than following a script or deciding ahead of time what we should work on, I follow your subconscious mind.
Your subconscious is constantly moving toward healing, growth, and wholeness. It already knows where the next opportunity for growth is—and it communicates that through your emotions, triggers, behaviors, thoughts, memories, and physical sensations.
Together, we follow the clues.
The things that frustrate you, stress you out, or keep showing up in your life are pointing us toward the patterns that are ready to be healed.
During our work together, we may use a combination of approaches depending on what your subconscious brings forward, including:
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Hypnosis and subconscious reprogramming
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Pattern interrupts and creating new responses
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Nervous system regulation techniques
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Somatic work to safely process stored emotions
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Inner child healing
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Parts work
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Mindset and perspective shifts
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Visualization and other evidence-based change techniques
No two sessions look exactly the same because I tailor each session to what you need in the moment.
One thing that is consistent is that I want you to leave every session with practical tools you can begin using immediately.
During your very first session, I'll teach you simple pattern interrupts and nervous system regulation techniques that you can use throughout your day. These tools help you begin changing your responses right away while we continue working on the deeper subconscious patterns underneath.
Over time, you'll become more aware of your automatic reactions, more connected to yourself, and more confident in responding differently.
Can I Be Hypnotized?
Yes. Everyone naturally enters hypnotic states every day.
You may experience hypnosis as deep relaxation, focused attention, or simply feeling calm while your mind becomes more absorbed in the process. Some people feel heavy, others feel light, and some feel completely normal.
There isn't one "correct" way to experience hypnosis.
Many people are surprised to learn that the times they thought they "weren't very deep" were actually some of their most productive sessions that resulted in the most changes.
The goal isn't to feel hypnotized.
The goal is to actually create the change.
When is a referral from a health care professional needed?
You do not need a referral if you're seeking hypnosis for personal growth or self-improvement.
This includes things like building confidence, improving public speaking, managing stress, changing unhealthy habits, strengthening relationships, increasing motivation, or working through limiting beliefs and emotional patterns.
If you're seeking hypnosis for a diagnosed mental or physical health condition, I will need a referral from your healthcare provider before we begin. This helps ensure that hypnosis is appropriate for your situation and allows us to work together in a way that best supports your overall care.
Even though hypnosis can be a wonderful complement to medical or mental health treatment, it is not a replacement for licensed medical or psychological care. I work alongside healthcare professionals when appropriate to make sure you're receiving the support that's right for you.
If, during our consultation, I believe there may be an underlying mental or physical health concern that should be evaluated by a licensed professional first, I'll let you know. My priority is always making sure you receive the safest and most appropriate care for your individual needs.
Who I Help
I help those who are struggling with overwhelming emotions or unhealthy habits to change how they feel, gain control over their behavior, and confidently take action toward achieving their personal and professional goals.
How I Do It
I empower you with tools to interrupt the old patterns, give healthy replacements for coping, and use hypnosis to train your brain in new behaviors and beliefs that positively change your life.
What's in It for You
Even if you only have 1 session with me, you will walk away with ways to regulate your nervous system, interrupt unwanted patterns, and learn rapid self-hypnosis to change your subconscious mind.